For the women who never fit the mold – and stopped trying to.
Our Approach
Built for witches, weird girls, horror lovers, introverts, neurodivergent women, outsiders, artists, mothers, feminists, tattooed women, and anyone searching for genuine spooky community.
No gatekeeping.
No forced positivity.
No pretending to be someone you’re not.
Just connection, creativity, community, and weird little adventures.
You Were Never “Too Weird.”
You just needed to find other women like you.
Women who:
decorate for Halloween year-round
collect bones, books, candles, and strange little trinkets
would rather visit a cemetery than a nightclub
want meaningful friendships as adults
are tired of shrinking themselves to make other people comfortable
are over men’s bullshit
want community without judgment
That’s why the Society exists.
A Community Built by Spooky Women, for Spooky Women
Founded in 2025 by Stephanie “Lady Smartypants,” The Society of Spooky Ladies began as a way to stay connected with friends who shared a love for the strange and unusual.
What started as a small idea quickly became something much bigger:
a growing community of women searching for belonging, friendship, creativity, empowerment, and authentic connection.
Our mission is simple:
Help you be the spooky you want to see in the world.
Our vision is to create a community where ALL women feel valued, powerful, and loved.
